when something goes wrong I freeze up opposite of the ogre I freeze up I get stagnant I don’t want to move I just ask myself why me I’ve tried saying good but it’s not getting me moving forward any advice you ask yourself why me so saying good that should fix your attitude but that alone that will that alone will not fix your problems if you’re having problems too sure say good that’s perfect but then don’t ask yourself why me instead ask yourself now what am I going to do about it what are you going to do about ask yourself that question and then figure it out figure out what you’re going to do say to yourself I am going to detach I am going to assess the situation I am going to come up with a plan and I am going to execute and then start moving it’s it’s not going to be a perfect plan but take action action that moves you in a positive direction and if it ends up being the wrong direction that’s fine at least you’ve learned where not to go now where this gets tough is if it is something that seems like it’s completely out of your control and you know what some things are completely out of your control and that’s fine and when that happens you ask yourself what can I control what can’t I control that will make this situation a little bit better and then you go don’t get crushed by things going wrong ask yourself what am I going to do and then go do it
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