Jaakko Lafe and echo your opinion has been solicited on this leadership question right here so we’ll see how that works out a good leader ensures his team understands what their goals are and why they’re are performing tasks but how do you balance doing this with not being the leader that talks so much that the team stops listening we do we just cover this for a long period of time pretty much it didn’t we I guess we can leave it at this echo do you agree with what we said earlier or do you have a different opinion about talking too much and mind you you’ve said a lot today so don’t be you know don’t get don’t get crazy over there we’ll stop listening the guy who talks too much no yeah less is more hundred percent agree there you go I like it I will say it musters when echoes echoes words to the audience Yoga is an epic speech with we have solicited probably the greatest applause of everyone out there yeah men see I guess to dig in this a little bit of how to balance that with with being a believe that talks so much I think you got to pay attention to what the reactions are you’re getting four people right you’ve got to pay attention to the reactions you’re getting four people if the people are not totally actively listening to you right if they’re not actively listening to you if they’re taking notes if they’re looking at their phone or what I’m not taking notes but if they’re looking at their phone or whatever then you’re talking too much keep it short keep it concise and people will listen to you more also that um when you say you got to pay attention to yourself that’s like a deep one it’s like you just said it really simply like I say just pay attention to yourself I mean you didn’t say like that but that’s what it felt like that’s the hardest part right there because a lot of times like hey mean like for talking and lace starts looking at his phone I’m not thinking hey I’m talking too much I’m saying what I’m saying it’s not interesting enough so I need so I need to say some more cool stuff or I need to be more this or more of that because I’m losing them kind of thing like if I’m losing you the intuitive thought is not to to completely disconnect and stop talking that’s not the intuitive thought seems I’m when you’re in a situation just gotta pay attention to that can stuff on yourself Jaco does this all the time what do I do buses phone out and starts you know what okay go I guess their conversations you know you know I do that Dean and Dean mister so Dean Dean Jack this is really important stuff we’re talking about areas like ya know what Dean does oh is he it makes him mad right he’s got the he’s got the pet peeve so Dean will be telling something and so you’re doing on purpose to get a schism no sometimes he’s saying some rambling stuff right and I’m I got stuff going on Dean come on I know you’re listening to this bro but sometimes he’ll be saying something to me and all of a sudden I’ll like all like look around all but and and now I realize I’ll just be watching people do jujitsu cuz we’re normally on the mat well this happens so he’s telling me something like look at me the eyes and he’s like you know in the ancient ba-ba-ba-ba here we telling me about the Peloponnesian War or something or whatever and and as I’m listening to him I’ll kind of look and I like start looking at someone that’s training or look at something and he’ll he’ll like attack me he went through a period where he would just attack me and like take me down and just start you know going psycho on me so that got me tuned up I got me tuned up when I try and give Dean some more attention yeah I like that yeah yeah I think that’s uh I think it’s a good feel like when he starts doing that surprise see what you’re doing well the thing is though and I think you’re in the same boat life where I know you kind of know now like in everyday life with other people you might think I mean intuitively anyway like I’m losing him or whatever but you tell with him if he starts doing that stuff you’re like okay he’s no stop or yeah move on or something but if you give me thirty five more seconds we’ll be you can move on I will say that’s a bad characteristic that I have where I can do that sometimes I’m done listening to you so wrap it up efficiency all the time yeah yeah this is one time agent assistant
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