chuckle I lost my little brother who died in a random medical accident he was someone that I always looked after how do you deal with grief and loss of men in your command someone asked me a similar question that the other day someone along the lines of how gonna be good when you lose a loved one and that’s definitely a tough question and I almost replied no it isn’t good there’s nothing good in death and and then I started to remember the people I’ve lost throughout my life the memories of them the experiences the fun their unique personalities and everything they’ve given me not only in their life but in their death what their life taught me and what their death taught me the mark the mark they had left on me and I realized I realized that even in death even in death there is good first of all I was lucky to have that person in my life even if it was only for a short time too short of a time but at least I got that those unforgettable moments those precious moments at least I got those and I got to experience those times to know of the beauty of their personality their attitude their outlook on the world they were all unique and I’m thankful for the opportunity that I had to interact with them even if it was just for a short amount of time and now comes death death is horrible and death is wretched and death is cruel and death isn’t fair and I don’t know why the best people seem to get taken from us first but the fact is death is inescapable there is no way out in death in that death is part of life in like the contrast between the darkness and the light without death then there is no life and the people that I’ve lost they taught me that they taught me how precious life is how blessed we are to have every day to learn and to grow and to laugh and to live to live to live every day with purpose and with passion to wake up in the morning and be thankful thankful for that morning and thankful for the opportunity to go out into the world and live to live for them for those that don’t have the opportunity for those that were stolen away by deaths cruel hand for them I will live I will cherish their memory and I will live so let’s cry no more let’s mourn no more let’s remember but let’s not dwell instead let’s laugh and let’s love and let’s embrace and cherish everything that life is and every opportunity it gives us live
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