um as somebody who’s uh recently uh recently proposed to somebody who would like to spend the rest of my life with as somebody who’s married and has uh from my knowledge uh gone away for extensive periods of time from their partner uh what is your tips to building a uh mortar-proof marriage that’s gonna last a long time yep the first thing i’ll say is you know you want to develop the you want your you want to make sure and encourage your wife to be emote emotionally independent emotionally independent because there’s gonna be times when you’re not around and if they’re dependent on you emotionally you’re not there they’re gonna they’re gonna be hurt and they’re not gonna be able to handle it so you wanna help them build that resiliency where when you’re not around they know how to handle things independently like the broken water heater and the flat tire they can do that and you you go through those things you you build that confidence with them and then also the emotional independence where what they have is trust in you that you’re gone but you’re coming back and you’re gonna be there for them always that’s number one number two is straight up extreme ownership that’s what it is when something is going wrong in your marriage it’s your fault it’s your fault the minute you turn to your wife and you say you shouldn’t have done this you’re wrong and you’re you’re taking that relationship in the wrong direction when you say hey look i’m trying to figure out how i made you do what you did i don’t want to let that happen so taking ownership when things go wrong that’s what you got to do that’s what you got to do thank you awesome awesome
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